A man’s logic – a mystery to me
06 Sep 2010 Leave a Comment
in Lifestyle, Men, Relationships, Women
My man finished work at 10pm, it is pouring with rain outside and so I called him and he did not answer his phone, as usual when I call him. Then I called his work and a woman gave the phone to him, fair enough he works with men and women. I then offered to call him a cab home and pay for the fare, I didn’t want him to get soaked waiting for the train. But he said “No, I’ve got a lift to the train station and I’ll catch the train.” - But I’ve just offered you a cab! Why does he prefer the lift from a work mate to the train station and wait in the car till the train comes?
All sorts crops up in my mind like – WHO is giving him this lift that he prefers their lift to my cab?
Last night also, I left a post on his wall saying “I love you.” (We’ve been together over a year now and he often says it to me at home but never when we’re out with friends) and he wrote back “What do you want?” then I said “I just want to tell you that I love you.” To which he wrote back “I no… mwah!” He didn’t even spell know the right way, it was so casual and brush off.
Are these the beginnings of “I’ve met someone else?” or “I’m fed up with you” ? Or is this paranoia on my part. He always seems to not even sit near me when we’re out together, he never holds my hand when we walk down the street (he used to at the beginning) and he never says he loves me when in front of his mix of male and female friends.
I’m confused. From a guy that says that ENTP’s and INFJ’s are perfect for each other, why is he distancing himself?
